Death Conversation Cards: A Gentle Way to Talk About Death and Dying
Let’s Talk About Endings: Death Conversation Cards for Meaningful Dialogue
Talking about death can feel uncomfortable, but it’s also one of the most life-affirming conversations we can have. Let’s Talk About Endings is a beautifully designed conversation card deck created by filmmaker Lucy Pijnenburg, inspired by her time attending Death Cafés while making her documentary A Story of Endings, a film in which I am a featured subject.
These cards are filled with thought-provoking prompts that spark honest and reflective conversations about death, dying, and what truly matters in life. They encourage us to share our wishes, fears, legacies, and hopes for the kind of support we want to give and receive. Far from morbid, the cards invite meaningful dialogue that can bring people closer together.
👉 Explore the card deck here: Let’s Talk About Endings
Why Death Conversation Cards Matter
Starting a conversation about death isn’t easy. Tools like Let’s Talk About Endings provide a gentle way in, helping families, friends, and communities open up about what is often avoided. By using prompts as conversation starters, we can reduce fear and build connection around a topic that touches us all.
In my own Death Cafés, I often use death conversation starters to help participants ease into discussion. You can also download my personal Death Conversation Starters PDF and bring these prompts into your own life.
Death Cafés: A Safe Space for Sharing
If you’re curious but unsure where to begin, attending a Death Café is a wonderful first step. These gatherings create a safe, welcoming space to talk about death, grief, and the meaning of life over tea and cake.
I regularly host Death Cafés in Melbourne, and many participants find the combination of structured conversation starters and open sharing helps break the ice and spark connection.
Bringing Death Into the Conversation
Whether you’re supporting someone at the end of life, exploring your own wishes, or simply curious about what it means to live well, Let’s Talk About Endings can be a powerful resource. By opening these conversations, we make space for honesty, connection, and ultimately, a deeper appreciation of life.